{"id":16435,"date":"2022-03-18T14:51:56","date_gmt":"2022-03-18T14:51:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/?p=16435"},"modified":"2022-03-18T14:51:56","modified_gmt":"2022-03-18T14:51:56","slug":"millennials-arent-skipping-church-black-churches-are-skipping-millenials","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/millennials-arent-skipping-church-black-churches-are-skipping-millenials\/","title":{"rendered":"Millennials Aren\u2019t Skipping Church, Black Churches are Skipping Millenials"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<ul>\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div><img class=\"CToWUd a6T\" tabindex=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/ci5.googleusercontent.com\/proxy\/E4OmQXG94IiyVEmrT1kd42uw3xcKzLequc4h2gxOJXJjKmJnNV8vF-trY7f7usXbQ-7ungKm27H6-YuTMf9RsKGER-YMWvXVynM63Ido6UyR1-t5HmMSQW4BM9Y1wApgDTIYdltz72GHT7lqg0uHeslRGyg72x3Op95uqXHS0UuGYiOYhVEC=s0-d-e1-ft#https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/blackyouthproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Black-Millennials-Pic-640x350-1.jpg?fit=640%2C350\" alt=\"\" \/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<blockquote><p>While we may not be going to church in the traditional sense, we are gathering together in unique spaces, both in person and online.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div>-Meagan Jordan<\/div>\n<div><a title=\"Share on Twitter\" href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/share?text=While+we+may+not+be+going+to+church+in+the+traditional+sense%2C+we+are+gathering+together+in+unique+spaces%2C+both+in+person+and+online.%C2%A0&amp;count=none&amp;url=http:\/\/blackyouthproject.com\/millennials-arent-skipping-church-the-black-church-is-skipping-us\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=http:\/\/twitter.com\/share?text%3DWhile%2Bwe%2Bmay%2Bnot%2Bbe%2Bgoing%2Bto%2Bchurch%2Bin%2Bthe%2Btraditional%2Bsense%252C%2Bwe%2Bare%2Bgathering%2Btogether%2Bin%2Bunique%2Bspaces%252C%2Bboth%2Bin%2Bperson%2Band%2Bonline.%25C2%25A0%26count%3Dnone%26url%3Dhttp:\/\/blackyouthproject.com\/millennials-arent-skipping-church-the-black-church-is-skipping-us\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1647468637468000&amp;usg=AOvVaw1c12xRClHaK5QnCDB0UogG\">\u00a0TWEET THIS<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><i>Washington Post\u00a0<\/i>columnist, Christine Emba, published a piece on Oct. 27, titled\u00a0Why millenials are skipping church and not going back. Emba declared millennials were interested in gaming, ambitiously building their careers, or just too busy to make time to attend service. While Emba isn\u2019t necessarily wrong in her assessment, I couldn\u2019t help but notice a key point left out of her argument.<\/p>\n<p>Black millennials aren\u2019t leaving the church because we are too driven in our respective careers, we\u2019re leaving because our faith is broadening. And we\u2019re resonating with the traditional spiritual beliefs of our ancestors.<\/p>\n<p>In the past, Christian spaces left millennials without refuge to worship and thrive spiritually. The argument that we are leaving the church because we want to clink mimosa glasses around is irresponsible and deserves further discussion. We are leaving in search of a practice[s] that is overtly inclusive of our sexuality, ancestral practices, and race \u2014 both in who we see or interact with in the congregation, as well as the pictorial representation in worship spaces.<\/p>\n<p>My distaste with aspects of the church isn\u2019t unique. Similar to many millennials, I grew up in the church and was an active member. I served on the usher board, sung in the choir and praise team, praise danced and recited speeches for Easter and Black History Month. I believed in Jesus because that was what I was told to do, and I knew not to question it.<\/p>\n<p><b>RELATED:<\/b>\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/blackyouthproject.com\/which-black-lives-matter-to-the-black-church\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=http:\/\/blackyouthproject.com\/which-black-lives-matter-to-the-black-church\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1647468637468000&amp;usg=AOvVaw1WMxXsI9eGLMUUTH08JG3x\">Which Black Lives Matter to the Black Church?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>But when I got to high school, I began questioning the God I had been taught to love. On the day I was assigned to usher, a woman walked in late for service. I remembered her. She attended one of our members\u2019 funerals not too long ago and it was whispers went around that they\u2019d been lovers.<\/p>\n<p>She entered the church doors as the preacher spoke, and took a seat in the back. In minutes, the trajectory of the preacher\u2019s message changed. She began condemning homosexuality and it was clear that the woman\u2019s late entrance triggered her rant. The preacher called homosexuality and those who were same gender loving \u201cnasty,\u201d\u00a0claiming they were \u201cgoing to hell.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The woman looked uncomfortable. The preacher returned to her seat thinking she\u2019d spoken the word of God, but in actuality unknowingly led two people (that I know of) away from the church that day. The woman never returned again and although forced to go to church under the roof and rules of my parents, I began to mentally and spiritually check-out.<\/p>\n<p>This story is neither new, nor emblematic of all Christian churches. The rhetoric has been so widespread that just ten years ago, similar messages were not only accepted, but normalized. Despite the dependency and utilization of the stereotypical gay choir director, preachers have used their platforms to shame and blast others\u2019 sexuality. They do so under the excuse that \u201cthe word,\u201d they bring forth is a God appointed and necessary truth.<\/p>\n<p>For the past decade, millennials have been leaving the church because some of them produce hate speech. Additionally, Black millennials are in search of a spirituality that centers their existence. Black churches celebrate Black History month, but rarely acknowledge a major part of our culture and past, which is the African Traditional Religions and spiritual beliefs our people crossed the water with.<\/p>\n<p><b>RELATED:\u00a0<\/b><a href=\"http:\/\/blackyouthproject.com\/the-black-church-can-engage-more-black-millennials-by-bringing-politics-back-into-the-pulpit\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=http:\/\/blackyouthproject.com\/the-black-church-can-engage-more-black-millennials-by-bringing-politics-back-into-the-pulpit\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1647468637468000&amp;usg=AOvVaw1ymkZh6Ioj9yHTjS2GTZRQ\">The Black church can engage more Black millennials by bringing politics back into the pulpit<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In a time where Black people and youth are reclaiming their authenticity and culture, the Black church needs to immediately reform its practices.<\/p>\n<p>Christianity, though very much embedded in modern Black American experience, participated in harming Black psyches that tricked us into deeming whiteness as superior, sovereign, and divine. The religion gave us a deity that did not represent its people, unlike what Oshun, Yemaya, Shango and Obatala offer up.<\/p>\n<p>Despite the pain that our folks went through, they brilliantly maintained certain African customs and traditions, masking them under Christianity and Catholicism. They unpacked the white man\u2019s religion to work in favor of their survival both physically and spiritually. The beauty of a praise break, known as shouting, resembles going into trance. Communion Sunday is a ritual of blood. Hoodoo, although not required or always practiced this way, can consist of \u201cspells,\u201d from the book of Psalms for protection and peace.<\/p>\n<p>The prophets known in the church are now readers of tarot, bones and tea leaves. People are unlocking their spiritual talents and understanding signs from God whether it be by way of astrology, numerology or just in nature itself. Christianity, and religion as a whole, are broadening. Millennials are leading the charge.<\/p>\n<p>While we may not be going to church in the traditional sense, we are gathering together in unique spaces, both in person and online.<\/p>\n<p>What many see as an escape from the church is simply a spiritual return to who we used to be and an exploration to who we have the potential to become. As Matthew 18:20 states,\u00a0 \u201cwhere two or three gather in my name, there I am with them,\u201d wherever that may be.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><em>Meagan Jordan is a culture writer based in the tri-state area. She focuses on issues surrounding race, identity, sexuality, and religion and pays attention to how these themes formulate the thread of culture. She is a proud alumna of North Carolina A&amp;T State University and received her Masters at Columbia Journalism School.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>While we may not be going to church in the traditional sense, we are gathering together in unique spaces, both in person and online. -Meagan Jordan \u00a0TWEET THIS Washington Post\u00a0columnist, Christine Emba, published a piece on Oct. 27, titled\u00a0Why millenials are skipping church and not going back. Emba declared millennials were interested in gaming, ambitiously<a class=\"read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/millennials-arent-skipping-church-black-churches-are-skipping-millenials\/\"> Read More&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16437,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[58,788,59,182],"tags":[1177,1158,1307],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16435"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16435"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16435\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16436,"href":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16435\/revisions\/16436"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16437"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16435"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16435"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test.nahtnow.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16435"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}